We can say no to sex, but still say yes to friendship, laughter, hanging out, affection, cuddling, socializing, and talking about interesting things. There are a hundred reasons why someone may not want to have sex, and those reasons can change from day to day, and moment to moment. Some people are very discerning about who they have sex with, while others are less so. I am saying this because lately, I have seen an alarming number of posts online where men are complaining that women are not having enough sex with them. These men are further making bizarre demands such as enforced monogamy and sexual quotas.
I don't want sex as much as I used to. How do I get that back?
I loved him fully and was super-attracted to him. It was a mood thing. He was always very supportive about this. He never made me feel bad about not being in the mood or anything like that. I ended up finding out I was feeling this way because of my birth control , and once the doctor took me off, I felt better and we started having a decent sex life again, doing it about two to three times a week.
What Are the Effects of Not Having Sex for a Long Time — or Ever?
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How do I get that spark back? I can remember lying in bed at night wondering if something was wrong with me. I had no desire to have sex with my partner at the time, and while the sex was OK when we did have it, it was largely non-existent. In fact, we fought about it quite a lot.