The answer options were Constantly, Often, Sometimes, Rarely, Never, and the percentages above represent those who chose Constantly, Often or Sometimes for that topic. Relationship Expectations What does this consist of, exactly? Well, a whole lot of things: how much time you spend together an especially volatile topic for those in long-distance relationships or those with exhausting time-consuming jobs , the level of emotional support required by each partner, whether long-term goals and life plans line up, and who is putting more [time, energy, trust, care-taking] into the relationship. Unsurprisingly, those who fought about sex constantly or often were the least likely to report always having makeup sex — only 4. So, basically, as soon as you start living together, you start fighting about how to live together! Relatives This is another category highly impacted by length of relationship — it barely comes up for newbies and climbs the charts the longer a couple is together. The most cited conflict for this category was discomfort with somebody still being friends with their ex, but difficulties with ex-husbands came up, too.