Society is good at visually appreciating butts and writing catchy songs about butts, but still not so great at understanding how we might derive physical pleasure from our own butts—especially when it comes to the prostate. With that in mind, I asked Lewis and sex and relationships advisor Lianne Young to give some tips on how you can give your partner a prostate orgasm. So if you stimulate the prostate gland, it kind of speeds up that process and makes it more pleasurable. Technically, everyone! If you've got a vagina, you will have Skene's glands occasionally known as the " female prostate " that are located near the lower end of your urethra.