I wanted to walk down the aisle by myself. I think the getting "given away" thing is kind of weird for a lot of reasons. Before I got the chance to tell my parents, my mom mentioned how excited my dad was to walk me down the aisle. So I just never said anything. But if I had and my dad threw a tantrum like this we would have had a conversation.
the gender is either boy, girl or hermaphrodite and the last is extremely rare. Cars, toys, gun and curls are not gender specific and that path is your own psychosis to relevance. The biology of the organism expresses the gender, not the choice of car. That culture of nonsense, that you live in, has damaged your rational.